1、车子有油，手机有电，卡里有钱，这就是安全感，指望别人都是扯淡。再牛逼的副驾驶，都不如自己紧握方向盘。
The car has oil, the cell phone has electricity, and Cary has money. That's the sense of security. It expects others to be bullshit. No matter how hard the co-driver is, it's better to grip the steering wheel by himself.
2、每一夜都能干干净净，心安理得筋疲力尽地入睡，每一天也能清清爽爽，心平气和精神充沛地醒来，这就是最好的生活。
It's the best life to be clean every night, to fall asleep exhausted with peace of mind, to wake up fresh, calm and energetic every day.
3、什么是完美?就是耳机音量刚好能盖过外界噪音，闹钟响起时你刚好自然醒，你爱的人刚好也爱你。
What is perfect? It's the volume of the headphones that just covers the outside noise. When the alarm clock rings, you just wake up naturally, and the person you love just loves you.
4、无论你在哪个年龄段，我想我们都应该学会对身边的人温柔一些，至少说出来的话不要给别人添堵，因为你可能不知道，语言真的有一种神奇的力量，它会让你爱的人爱你，也会让爱你的人决定离开你。
No matter what age you are, I think we should all learn to be gentle with the people around us, at least not to add to others by saying things, because you may not know that language really has a magical power, it will let the person you love love love love you, will also let the person who loves you decide to leave you.
5、做不了决定的时候，让时间帮你决定。如果还是无法决定，做了再说。宁愿犯错，不留遗憾。When you can't make a decision, let time decide for you. If you still can't decide, do it again. Better make mistakes than regret.
6、越长大就越发觉，最离不开的还是家人，不求多富贵，我要我的家人都无痛无病无灾，身体健康就很好了。
The older I grow up, the more I realize that the most important thing I can do is to have my family. I don't want to be rich or rich. I want my family to be painless, disease-free and healthy.
7、渐渐的知道了，很多东西可遇而不可求，不属于自己的，何必拼了命去在乎，你在意什么，什么就会折磨你，期待是所有心痛的根源。
Gradually learned that many things can be met but not sought, do not belong to their own, why desperately care about, you care about what, what will torture you, expectation is the root of all heartache.
8、人，永远不会珍惜三种人：一是轻易得到的;二是永远不会离开的;三是那个一直对你很好的。但是，往往这三种人一旦离开就永远不会再回来。
People will never cherish three kinds of people: one is easy to get; the other is never to leave; and the third is that it has always been good for you. But often these three people will never come back once they leave.
9、不必太纠结于当下，也不必太忧虑未来，当你经历过一些事情的时候，眼前的风景已经和从前不一样了。
Don't be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.
10、和谁都别熟得太快，不要以为刚开始话题一致，共同点很多，你们就是相见恨晚的知音。语言很多时候都是假的，一起经历的才是真的。
Don't get acquainted with anyone too quickly. Don't think that the topic is the same at the beginning. There are many things in common. You are the intimate friends who hate meeting late. Language is often false, and what we experience together is true.
11、斯人如彩虹，遇上方知有。有趣的灵魂终会相遇，在此之前，请先努力成为更好的自己。
People like rainbows know when they meet. Interesting souls will eventually meet. Before that, try to be a better self.
12、长大以后的世界，是有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实。所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。
When you grow up in the world, sometimes you tell the truth, you have to apologize to others, because you have punctured the truth. So if you want to live smoothly, take your mind with you all the time.
13、你要做一个不动声色的大人了。不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。
You're going to be a quiet adult. Do not be emotional, do not secretly miss, do not look back. Live a different life for yourself. Be obedient, not all fish will live in the same ocean.
14、不必过于在意人与人之间表面的情绪;挚交之人不需要，泛交之人用不着。情绪这东西，你不在乎，它就伤不到你。
Don't care too much about the superficial emotions between people; people who have close acquaintances don't need them; people who have extensive acquaintances don't need them. Emotion, you don't care, it won't hurt you.
15、等你的身体出了什么毛病，你就会意识到什么烦心事都是屁，都是吃饱了撑的，都是闲的，健康活着比什么都重要。
When something goes wrong with your body, you will realize that everything you worry about is fart, you are full, you are idle, and it is more important to live healthily than anything else.
16、所有关系变淡的原因一个不说，一个不问。一个问得尴尬，一个答得敷衍，不说，以为对方会懂，不问，以为对方已变，终从无话不说变成了无话可说。
The reasons for all the weakening of the relationship are not to say, not to ask. One asks embarrassingly, the other answers perfunctorily, does not say, thinks that the other party understands, does not ask, thinks that the other party has changed, and finally becomes speechless from speechless to speechless.
17、未曾清贫难做人，不经打击永天真。成熟不过是善于隐藏，沧桑不过是无泪有伤。
Never be poor, never be naive. Maturity is only good at hiding, vicissitudes of life are just no tears and injuries.
18、人啊，长了颗红楼梦的心，却生活在水浒的世界，想交些三国里的桃园弟兄，却总遇到些西游记里的妖魔鬼怪。
Man, with a dream of red mansions, he lives in the world of the Marsh. He wants to make some brothers in Taoyuan in the Three Kingdoms, but he always encounters some devils in his travels to the West.
19、别人做得越绝，你反而越容易走得出去。所以很多时候，你应该感激那些毫不顾及你的人。哀莫大于心不死，幸莫过于死彻底。
The more people do it, the easier it is for you to get out. So many times, you should be grateful to those who don't care about you. No sorrow is greater than death, and no luck is more complete than death.
20、有些东西，并不是越浓越好，要恰到好处。深深的话我们浅浅地说，长长的路我们慢慢地走。
Some things, not the thicker the better, to be just right. Deep words, we say shallowly, the long road we take slowly.
